October 3, 2018


I’ve been pretty silent these past few months. Enjoying life as a family of five. My creative career has  been blossoming in this new area as I watch Lloyd forge real friendships at school, Walter toddles around the house and Mabel points at anything and everything sh...

July 24, 2018

Despite assurances from all our doctors that Dan and I clearly cannot conceive naturally, we decided to err of the side of caution and shut that shit down.

Dan had an attempted vasectomy earlier last month. What’s the difference between an actual vasectomy and an attemp...

May 14, 2018

My 3-year-old has been asking lots of questions regarding his creation.

In some ways, the scientific answer may be easier to give than if we had made him the good old-fashioned way. We've always been open and honest with Lloyd. We call body parts by their real names. We...

May 9, 2018

Tomorrow I turn 39 and it occurred to me that I have spent all of my thirties trying to procreate, and not in the fun way. 

We tried the expensive, emotionally exhausting way. Obviously, as you can see, we succeeded. YAY! What you can’t see are battle wounds, the failed...

March 15, 2018

It's been one week since Walter's surgery. Every day is better than the last. He still has a lot of pain when he lays down and diaper changes are the worst. He's waking up three to four times a night, screaming, but that's to be expected. He really is taking this whole...

March 8, 2018